Based on decades of informal, unverified, and unscientific observation, the checklist for obstacles to Effective Coaching (EF) includes:
Belief addiction disorder. Believing in things that don’t work.
Victim addiction disorder. Stuck in victim mode
Performance addiction disorder. If you can’t measure it, it doesn’t exist
Hierarchy addiction disorder. Having to have hierarchy up and down
Possibility deficit disorder Never see Possibilities
Possibility addiction disorder So many possibilities you can’t decide
Explanation addiction disorder Excessive unnecessary explanation
Dysfunction addiction disorder. Can’t stand having things work
Fear addiction disorder Needing to be afraid
Identity addiction disorder Stuck in who you think you are
Measurement addiction disorder. Excessive need for certainty
Yes addiction disorder Having to say yes
No addiction disorder Having to say no
Cognitive dissonance disorder Need to be confused
Inquiry avoidance addiction Obsessive need to know
Profit addiction disorder. Profit is God
Arrogance addiction disorder Self importance always wins
Control addiction disorder. Never not Dominate
Adrenaline addiction disorder. No Rush, No Existence
Relationship addiction disorder Feeling unloved or unworthy
Having to be nice Soft is always better
Having to be severe Hard is always better