Sometimes what is needed is a simple reframing of our circumstances.  The same goes for us as coaches.  The quality of life is not determined by the circumstances…it is determined by our presence!

Reframing a situation from something personal — or something you must analytically figure out — to “they just do” and “it’s one of the mysteries of life” can save a ton of headache, heartache, self-doubt, and mental torture that will lead to nowhere productive.